A Final Farewell

Friday, October 30th, 2020 11:57 am
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Yesterday I went to Jiffy's funeral.  There are very few pet cemeteries, but fortunately for me there is one about a 40 minute drive from me.

So yesterday afternoon I drove there.  They had collected my little man, and prepared a plot.  Steve, the man who worked with me was lovely, and let me take my time.  He offered if I wanted time in the Sanctury with him, but I declined, as it was only putting off the inevitable and I had spoken to Jiffy so much in these last few weeks.  So we proceeded to his burial plot, and with care he was lowered in.  I had actually thought of a couple of things to say, which I wrote down, and said, before dropping the piece of paper in with him.  He is buried in his pyjamas, that he had worn every night for 12 years (Mum had knitted them), and had one of hif favourite toys with him.

With a farewll, I left to pay and sort out his marker, etc.  He has a temporary one at present, and his new one will come in a couple of weeks.  In the New Year I am going to order a granite gravestone for him.



You can see he is resting in a lovely area - the final preparations are still being done here -
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However, I do slightly worry that the cemetery will have problems, as those 2 graves near him are also Westies ... 3 Westies together ... a worry indeed!!
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The older part of the cemetery
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R.I.P. My Little Man

Date: 2020-10-30 01:42 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] teragramm.livejournal.com
The cemetery seems like a lovely final resting place for your dear friend. *HUGS*

Date: 2020-10-30 01:46 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] kazzy-cee.livejournal.com
I'm sure there's a big Jiffy shaped hole in the house, but he's still there in your heart. *hugs*

Date: 2020-10-30 03:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rivertempest.livejournal.com
Oh, Deb! Jiffy was such a lovely boy, as he was well loved by you and your parents. Such a peaceful and beautiful resting spot. I'm so sorry he's not with you, physically, but I'm sure he's there with you in your heart. Take care, be safe and lots of hugs.

Date: 2020-10-30 03:51 pm (UTC)
gillo: (Sympathy flowers)
From: [personal profile] gillo
I'm so very sorry for your loss. He was a lucky boy to live with such love and care.

Date: 2020-10-30 04:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
What a lovely spot. And now I imagine 3 westies, with the energy of their youth, all happily tumbling around and chasing each other.

Date: 2020-10-30 07:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] scripsi.livejournal.com
I'm very behind on LJ, so didn't read about Jiffy before. I'm very sorry for your loss. And yes, it's a lovely place! <3

Date: 2020-10-30 08:59 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] desdemonaspace
Oh, honey. Poor little man.

Date: 2020-10-31 04:54 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] desdemonaspace
Once my cats cross the Rainbow Bridge, I really don't know what I will do. They're my only company these days.

Date: 2020-10-30 11:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kudagirl.livejournal.com
You found a lovely resting spot for your little man. I'm sure your parents would say job well done. Jiffy's life was filled with love. Now that you have completed this task, a more difficult one begins. Missing his smiling face and warm loving being. As the days go by you will find yourself remembering him and feeling his love.

Date: 2020-10-31 02:56 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] jerusha
*hugs* I'm so sorry for your loss.

Date: 2020-10-31 10:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] trepkos.livejournal.com
What a lovely resting place for him.

Date: 2020-10-31 03:19 pm (UTC)
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What a beautiful resting place.

Date: 2020-10-31 03:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kindredspirit75.livejournal.com
So sorry to hear about Jiffy. Our amazing animal friends leave footprints on our hearts forever.

Date: 2020-10-31 09:13 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] cordykitten
*hugs you tight* I'm sorry to hear about Jiffy.
it's beautiful there. But he'll stay in your memories, too.

Date: 2020-11-01 12:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] downunderdeb.livejournal.com
Oh, Deborah, I am so saddened to read your posts on the loss of Jiffy. I so rarely visit LJ these days but I do try to catch up when I can. I certainly understand your feelings of loss and that empty space ... take care, stay safe.

Date: 2020-11-04 12:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cbtreks.livejournal.com
That's a sad but sweet thing. I'm glad for you that you were able to properly lay Jiffy to rest and say goodbye.

Date: 2021-03-20 09:42 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] strangelyjonathan
I've never lived anywhere that had a pet cemetery. I'm glad you were able to find such a nice place to lay to him to rest. I will miss him too. *hugs*

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