What A Weird Start To My Day

[debris4spike]

Wow - I so rarely remember my dreams ... but this one woke me up and now I can't stop thinking about it ... and the person involved.

I had this dream that I bumped into someone that I hadnt seen in a log, long time ... and we stopped and had coffee.  He and I caught up with our news in general about what life had given us and where we had been etc since we had last chatted ...Then comes the bit I can't lose.

He started telling me about his fiancee ... and how happy he was .. but the more we talked the more he opened up until II learnt that she was emotionally abusing and bullying him.

He is someone that I am no longer in touch with - yet I feel I want to phone him, or go and give him a hug ... silly, I know.

I suppose part of thedream is coming from my school-day bullying that I am slowly working through ... but why use this guy to do it.

... I begin to cope with my feelings ... now I can worry that this old friend is sad .... Huh???

Anyway - as a Christian I could do the positive thing and pray that this is only my nightmare - and that he is actually really happy.

Oh well ... I must get off my mad thoughts and get on with the rest of my day - Just thought sharing might make me make sense of it!! 

Comments

[curiouswombat.livejournal.com]

Yes - I think I would pray. Perhaps, if you have a worrying dream about him again though, I would drop a note or whatever just to say that I'd dreamt about him, and it made me want to ask if he was all right, as well.

[debris4spike]

Thanks - that is a good idea ... at least as a Christian there is someething I can do in prayer - at least I am not 100% lost!

Thanks for commenting

[tamakin.livejournal.com]

Whoa thats bizarre! Id be feeling the urge to ring him too! Wonder what brought on such randomness O.o

[debris4spike]

Yes - I wish we were in touch so I could just say "Hi" and take the conversation from there!

Or maybe it is just my brain ... That's a scary thought!!!!

[kalinda001.livejournal.com]

Perhaps it is your subconscious still working out things. You could call him up and see if he's alright, in case? Or just to say 'hi'? Maybe pray for him too?

[debris4spike]

Yes, it is great that I can pray for him - at least I feel positive in that.

[jerusha]

*hugs* Perhaps you should call him? Or email? It could be that this was a prompt to get in touch with him again, if possible. Or it could be your subconscious being weird. I've had that happen before.

[debris4spike]

I suppose I am putting it down to my sub-conscious as it is a long time since we have spoken ... but having said that I have been praying for him - so whether or not he has a problem then at least I have done that!

[pfeifferpack.livejournal.com]

ACtually when I have people from my past pop up in a dream for no apparent reason (not thought of in ages for example) I realize that they are playing a part of my own subconscious in the dream but I also offer up a prayer for them. Everyone needs prayers so no harm done *G*. Something in that person reflects a part of you would be my guess.

*hugs*
Kathleen

[debris4spike]

I suppose I was feeling "wiggy" as it is all the bullying side coming out - still it was good to pray for him and to face personal nightmares from a different angle

Thanks Kathleen